Relationships - How to Choose More Carefully
By Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo
Many people spend so much time and energy on their love lives, striving for the ideal relationship. While self-love is the only true love in our view, it's understandable why the feeling of being loved and accepted by another is so desirable.
Along the path to finding compatible love, everyone has their share of adverse relationship experiences and some people are fated to have more than others. Although challenging love connections seem to only complicate your life, in time it's easier to see how they've helped you learn and grow.
Sometimes the best path seems to be to go forward with a challenging relationship even if you are aware ahead of time that it could be problematic. Other times a relationship may seem wonderful at first, but then you realize you didn't know the person (or yourself) as well as you thought you did, you end up bringing out the worst in each other, or you simply grow apart.
Our research and work firmly indicate "negative" relationship situations are karmic. Even so, ultimately you do have free will to react to the situations and conditions in your life, and the more in tune with yourself you are, the easier it will be to choose and navigate your relationships with compassion and understanding.
Self-Exploration, and Relationship Traditions
If you avoid self-exploration and solitude at all costs, and you place great importance on relationship traditions, it will be much more difficult for you to avoid the bad apples and emotionally, physically, mentally, financially and, or psychically draining relationships. A fear of being alone and an avoidance of self-analysis will cause you to overlook obvious signs and become involved with or remain with people who, all things considered, work against you.
As discerned through astrological and numerological comprehensive charting methods, handwriting analysis, and psychic insight, some people are born much more relationship oriented, with scarce emotional independence (or are even prone to codependence). Hence, situations involving unhealthy relationships decisively manifest as part of their predestined path. Though even in these cases, they have the option of using free will to make the most of it all.
If you fit into this category, one possible remedy to help limit toxic relationships is having goals that supersede "The One" ideal. School, career, your children, fitness, volunteering, hobbies, or other such things on which to focus your time and energy could help you make better decisions in your love life by helping you to detach and view it all from a higher perspective. At the same time, we've found that people will do as they are fated to do time and time again, but at least awareness can assuage dilemmas and you can work within your destined framework for more desirable effects.
Knowing Thyself and Meditation
If you are one of the few who know themselves very well on levels other than conscious understanding, or meditate regularly to the point of consistently experiencing divine insights, you'll be able to perceive quite a bit about potential matches before getting involved with them. This will also give you a head start in how you approach and respond to people and situations in your life, allowing you to use your f.ree will more constructively.
For example, after meeting a new relationship, friendship, or employment possibility, you'll be able to more easily pause, step back, contemplate the situation, and consider if it's worth the time and energy and if it would be supportive of your goals. But maybe you're also wise enough to know that one's heart can interfere with decision-making.
Metaphysical Tools, Advisors, and Eremites
If you consult with a metaphysical advisor or even actively apply tools such as astrology, numerology, handwriting analysis, or tarot, or work with dream analysis, for example, you may know quite a bit about potential matches even before you meet them. Higher than average psychic abilities can also allow you to perceive the "good" and "bad," or at least what you need to know, about people and situations ahead of time. Unfortunately, this may often cause you to be forced to decide between the complexities of the connection and being alone, and remaining single may seem like the better choice more often than not.
This dynamic could partially explain why "wise women," "old sages," and other mystically inclined individuals are often depicted as living alone, such as in the forest or on a mountain top; they see beyond the surface, detect the spiritual reasons at the start, and opting out might seem more appealing. Of course, they may also be alone because they enjoy it, their collective natal and timing indications symbolically choose this for them, they are simply taking a break between relationships, or they have so many friends (guides, spirits, etc.) in the unseen dimensions that taking on ones in the here and now may seem unnecessary or pose too much of a burden.
There will always be "good" and "bad" apples in the barrel of your love life and in the rest of your life. Expanding your awareness will help guide you to make smarter choices, and when the only option is a connection that lacks a reasonable level of compatibility, use your f.ree will to accept where you are and navigate to a better place. Although due to your personal fate, you may not be able to manifest more desirable circumstances right away, but eventually you'll be able to make the best of even the most trying times.
Copyright © Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo
Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo are identical twins and have been exploring metaphysics since the early 1980's. They are experts in the fields of prediction, personal fate, love life, and past life regression, and are natural psychics and mediums. Get their free report: 13 Spiritual and New Age Myths and 11 Questions to Ask before hiring a Psychic.
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Friday, December 7, 2007
Saturday, November 24, 2007
Still trying to get over the loss of your girlfriend?
Recovery From Being Dumped By a Woman - 10 Quick Tips
By Chase Brooks
Being dumped by your girlfriend can be a very stressful thing. Sometimes you'll be over it in 5 minutes. Other times it'll feel like you're about to die. This article is for any guys having problems dealing with it.
Getting over it is by no means easy, but you can definitely reduce the blow and make the recovery smoother and less painful.
Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind - Every time you look at a picture of her, read her love letters or see anything else that reminds you of her you're going to rip open old wounds. You'll know you're over her when you can look at her photos and not feel the despair and sadness you may feel now. But until then, take it all away and either get rid of it or put it somewhere hidden.
Take a Walk - Every day for 20 or 30 minutes. The exercise will put some energy into you that you may be lacking. The fresh air will make you feel great and you'll have an easier time piecing everything together.
Get a Haircut - Find the coolest haircut that'll suit you and get it done. Better yet, get a whole new look. Not only will you feel more attractive, you'll reverse the self-confidence damage from being dumped.
Inspire Yourself - Remember that old book that always made you feel energized and inspired after reading it? Or was it a movie? Whatever it was, get it out and watch it/read it whenever you feel down.
Sweat It Out - A great way to get over being dumped is to start a new work-out plan. Exercise regularly. Do cardio once a day. The chemicals your body releases after an intense workout will relax you and you'll feel great. BONUS: Although they don't like to admit it, a toned and refined body is very sexy to women. Use this newly acquired power to your advantage.
Keep Busy - Is there anything you've always wanted to learn, but never did? Maybe a new language? Street magic? A new sport? A new musical instrument? Whatever it is, now is the best time to start. You've got no excuse! If there's no local clubs, you can learn just about anything online. By setting goals within your new hobby and working towards them whenever you have free time, you'll find yourself worrying about your ex less and improving yourself instead.
A New Companion - This'll make some of you guys cringe, but getting a new pet is an idea. It'll keep you occupied and busy. If it's a dog, you can spend time teaching it new tricks. If you're after a new woman, dogs (especially puppies) are irresistible to most girls and make great conversation starters.
Go Wild - Throw a party. Get all your friends together and go crazy. Doing this every now and then will do you a lot of good, but don't get addicted. You want to surround yourself with your friends as much as possible when you're feeling down about a relationship.
Don't Be A Wuss - Crying is okay. Constantly calling your ex and pestering her about getting back with you is not. Not only will she start to detest you, you're going to damage your self-esteem. No one likes a needy guy. If you want any chance at getting back with her, try changing yourself and not her. If she sees you in a new light maybe she'll regret her decision to dump you. I've managed this before, so it's definitely possible.
Say "Yes" - Someone offering you lunch? Say yes. Buddy wants to take you paint balling? Say yes. Friends want to meet up and go clubbing? Say yes. Keep your life busy and exciting.
Getting over a break-up is never easy. But there are good ways and bad ways to deal with it. I've experienced both, so however you feel right now I'm sure I've been there. Good luck, I wish you all the best!
Chase focuses on writing articles dealing with the stress related to break-ups and provides tips and advice on how to become happy again.
Has this article helped you? Looking for more tips? Visit Chase's blog for information on AMAZING secrets that will get you over the pain of heartbreak and maybe even win your ex back.
Breakup Tips and Advice
By Chase Brooks
Being dumped by your girlfriend can be a very stressful thing. Sometimes you'll be over it in 5 minutes. Other times it'll feel like you're about to die. This article is for any guys having problems dealing with it.
Getting over it is by no means easy, but you can definitely reduce the blow and make the recovery smoother and less painful.
Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind - Every time you look at a picture of her, read her love letters or see anything else that reminds you of her you're going to rip open old wounds. You'll know you're over her when you can look at her photos and not feel the despair and sadness you may feel now. But until then, take it all away and either get rid of it or put it somewhere hidden.
Take a Walk - Every day for 20 or 30 minutes. The exercise will put some energy into you that you may be lacking. The fresh air will make you feel great and you'll have an easier time piecing everything together.
Get a Haircut - Find the coolest haircut that'll suit you and get it done. Better yet, get a whole new look. Not only will you feel more attractive, you'll reverse the self-confidence damage from being dumped.
Inspire Yourself - Remember that old book that always made you feel energized and inspired after reading it? Or was it a movie? Whatever it was, get it out and watch it/read it whenever you feel down.
Sweat It Out - A great way to get over being dumped is to start a new work-out plan. Exercise regularly. Do cardio once a day. The chemicals your body releases after an intense workout will relax you and you'll feel great. BONUS: Although they don't like to admit it, a toned and refined body is very sexy to women. Use this newly acquired power to your advantage.
Keep Busy - Is there anything you've always wanted to learn, but never did? Maybe a new language? Street magic? A new sport? A new musical instrument? Whatever it is, now is the best time to start. You've got no excuse! If there's no local clubs, you can learn just about anything online. By setting goals within your new hobby and working towards them whenever you have free time, you'll find yourself worrying about your ex less and improving yourself instead.
A New Companion - This'll make some of you guys cringe, but getting a new pet is an idea. It'll keep you occupied and busy. If it's a dog, you can spend time teaching it new tricks. If you're after a new woman, dogs (especially puppies) are irresistible to most girls and make great conversation starters.
Go Wild - Throw a party. Get all your friends together and go crazy. Doing this every now and then will do you a lot of good, but don't get addicted. You want to surround yourself with your friends as much as possible when you're feeling down about a relationship.
Don't Be A Wuss - Crying is okay. Constantly calling your ex and pestering her about getting back with you is not. Not only will she start to detest you, you're going to damage your self-esteem. No one likes a needy guy. If you want any chance at getting back with her, try changing yourself and not her. If she sees you in a new light maybe she'll regret her decision to dump you. I've managed this before, so it's definitely possible.
Say "Yes" - Someone offering you lunch? Say yes. Buddy wants to take you paint balling? Say yes. Friends want to meet up and go clubbing? Say yes. Keep your life busy and exciting.
Getting over a break-up is never easy. But there are good ways and bad ways to deal with it. I've experienced both, so however you feel right now I'm sure I've been there. Good luck, I wish you all the best!
Chase focuses on writing articles dealing with the stress related to break-ups and provides tips and advice on how to become happy again.
Has this article helped you? Looking for more tips? Visit Chase's blog for information on AMAZING secrets that will get you over the pain of heartbreak and maybe even win your ex back.
Breakup Tips and Advice
Friday, November 16, 2007
How To Find Your Online Soul Mate?
How To Find Your Online Soul Mate?
By Amatista Luna
Internet has meant the beginning of a new way of life for many people. A few years ago nobody would have thought that would be one of the most popular ways to meet people. After all, you need to leave the house to meet people, so how could online dating really work?
The reason is people have increasingly busy lives, making it hard to meet people, though the rage can also be blamed on the integration of technology into our daily lives. Whatever the reasons, online dating is a great way to meet people, you can meet the real love match if you follow a few online dating tips that are so easy and straightforward and anyone can follow them.
The main thing to keep in mind is that online dating is just like dating in the real world. It´s a numbers game, and the more people you contact, the better your chances of meeting that special someone.
• Having a good online dating profile.
Think of your online dating profile as a snapshot of your life. You may find it useful to grab a pen and paper and jot down some ideas on what to include before filling in the profile on screen Your online dating profile has to be appealing, but it also has to be accurate. Make sure you include some of your likes and dislikes, but keep it positive throughout. No one likes anyone who constantly complains! It´s worth remembering that a vital aspect of who you are is your outlook on life, try to provide a taste of who you are and what you stand for as a person. Remember to keep your profile short, and make sure you show some wit!
• Subscribe to a dating site
To increase your chances of meeting someone is to pay the subscription price, at least for a few months or look for a free site. When you subscribe, you are free to contact other members so that a dialogue can get started. It´s ok if you don´t pay at first, just to feel the site out, but if you don´t pay, it may lower your chances of a love match.
• Contact as many people as you can
Be realistic! not everyone is going to look like a supermodel or fit into a cookie cutter description. Give all people a chance and you will increase your chances at love. You don´t have to lower your standards and go meeting anyone who is in the site, just make sure you´re not discarding people who might actually be a good match.
• Never talk bad about yourself
Never! Never put yourself down and tell the person they probably won´t like you because.... This is very unattractive to a potential mate. People are going to be interested in you if they feel you´re happy, confident and secure with who you are. After a time you can say what you don´t like about yourself, if you get into a relationship. Until then, be mysterious and you will find many potential mates who want to know more about you, plant curiosity and collect.
• Make time for your online dating relationship.
Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? And do you do the same? Do you take online dating for granted? Neglecting (or not prioritizing) virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other's time with respect. If you are trying to find love online the least you can do is being serious about it.
Online dating is a great way to meet people; you have a tank full of profiles from which to choose. You get to know people on the inside before you get to know them physical and this way you will go to the certain. Just make sure you keep it realistic, be yourself and remember to have confidence in everything you do. So there you go this tips will take you close to meet your online soul mate.
Writed by Amatista Luna
Get more information Online love and Blind dates
By Amatista Luna
Internet has meant the beginning of a new way of life for many people. A few years ago nobody would have thought that would be one of the most popular ways to meet people. After all, you need to leave the house to meet people, so how could online dating really work?
The reason is people have increasingly busy lives, making it hard to meet people, though the rage can also be blamed on the integration of technology into our daily lives. Whatever the reasons, online dating is a great way to meet people, you can meet the real love match if you follow a few online dating tips that are so easy and straightforward and anyone can follow them.
The main thing to keep in mind is that online dating is just like dating in the real world. It´s a numbers game, and the more people you contact, the better your chances of meeting that special someone.
• Having a good online dating profile.
Think of your online dating profile as a snapshot of your life. You may find it useful to grab a pen and paper and jot down some ideas on what to include before filling in the profile on screen Your online dating profile has to be appealing, but it also has to be accurate. Make sure you include some of your likes and dislikes, but keep it positive throughout. No one likes anyone who constantly complains! It´s worth remembering that a vital aspect of who you are is your outlook on life, try to provide a taste of who you are and what you stand for as a person. Remember to keep your profile short, and make sure you show some wit!
• Subscribe to a dating site
To increase your chances of meeting someone is to pay the subscription price, at least for a few months or look for a free site. When you subscribe, you are free to contact other members so that a dialogue can get started. It´s ok if you don´t pay at first, just to feel the site out, but if you don´t pay, it may lower your chances of a love match.
• Contact as many people as you can
Be realistic! not everyone is going to look like a supermodel or fit into a cookie cutter description. Give all people a chance and you will increase your chances at love. You don´t have to lower your standards and go meeting anyone who is in the site, just make sure you´re not discarding people who might actually be a good match.
• Never talk bad about yourself
Never! Never put yourself down and tell the person they probably won´t like you because.... This is very unattractive to a potential mate. People are going to be interested in you if they feel you´re happy, confident and secure with who you are. After a time you can say what you don´t like about yourself, if you get into a relationship. Until then, be mysterious and you will find many potential mates who want to know more about you, plant curiosity and collect.
• Make time for your online dating relationship.
Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? And do you do the same? Do you take online dating for granted? Neglecting (or not prioritizing) virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other's time with respect. If you are trying to find love online the least you can do is being serious about it.
Online dating is a great way to meet people; you have a tank full of profiles from which to choose. You get to know people on the inside before you get to know them physical and this way you will go to the certain. Just make sure you keep it realistic, be yourself and remember to have confidence in everything you do. So there you go this tips will take you close to meet your online soul mate.
Writed by Amatista Luna
Get more information Online love and Blind dates
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