Relationship Rescue - 3 Secrets to Rescue Your Relationship

Help! I need to rescue my relationship today!

Here are 3 ideas you can use to save your marriage or love relationship:

1. Make an appointment with a relationship doctor!
Relationship rescue can be complex so consult the relationship doctors, gurus and experts that have studied successful relationships and know what you need to do to get save your relationship. You don't have to go to marriage counselling unless you both have agreed that is the last hope for you. Simply make use of the great books, courses and websites that are out there that teach you how to have a blissful relationship.

2. Remember your vows!
If you are wanting to save your marriage relationship, start by recalling your vows. You made a promise to eachother. Now, it's time to start honoring that promise big time. You may even have to break a sweat to do it! But just re-establish your love relationship as your primary value. Make it all important. And start doing those things that you intuitively know already that make relationships work. The love commitment that you made to each other offers the clues to what you need to do for relationship rescue:

# To love, comfort and keep -- this means be affectionate. Speak to your partner warmly. Encourage, cuddle and caress them. Love works miracles to save your relationship.
# Faithfulness -- keep faith with each other. Support each other. Back one another up. Be the strength that empowers your partner.
# Unconditionality -- you promised to be together through richer or poorer, in sickness and health. If your relationship is sick, you stick with it and do what you need to do to change and make it better.
# Permanence -- your marriage vows may have included "as long as we both shall live" or "until death do us part". That's a promise of eternal love. So eliminate that mental get out clause (breakup or divorce) you are holding in the back of your mind. And take 100% responsibility for rescuing your relationship.

3. The ultimate relationship saver
Invest your energy in your relationship rescue plan by forming a new picture of what you want your love relationship to be like. As you visualise the qualities that you want to see manifest in your marriage or relationship, begin to ask yourself how you personally can start to create this. By taking personal responsibility, you will tap into your enormous creative resources and will be guided as to what to say and do in order to save your relationship.
I think an awesome way to start to rescue your relationship is to make a big effort to show appreciation and gratitude for your partner. This might take an enormous effort on your part if your relationship is really bad, but it can pay immediate dividends in the way you feel and the way the relationship pans out day to day. Simply say thankyou for all the things you are grateful to your partner for. If necessary drag up old memories and say, for example, "Remember that time when you picked up my dry cleaning for me? I really appreciated that. Thank you." Make a game of finding things to be grateful. What you appreciate, appreciates in value.
Gratitude has awesome healing powers. Explore it as part of your relationship rescue mission and you'll find yourself on your way to the truly blissful relationship that you both deserve.

Anne Amore of http://www.super-self.com is thrilled and delighted to offer you this brief relationship advice article. It is her hope that in simply reading Relationship Rescue -- 3 Secrets to Rescue Your Relationship, you'll find the next step to relationship rescue and a lifetime full of love.

May you be now and forever blessed. And so you are.

Copyright 2007 Anne Amore